you just have to keep going

you just have to keep going

For a while, life became very scary for me and I didn't hide it within my small social circle. Some days were good, while other days, I would obsess over decisions I had made years ago - questioning where I had gone wrong that led me to various  . . .
Vulnerability

Vulnerability

I was raised to put my head down and soldier on during tough times and was told never to be vulnerable because being so meant I was weak. It's hard to say whether these were intended life lessons, but deep down, that is what I interpreted the messages  . . .

The best and the most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart.

Hellen Keller
What Do You Choose?

What Do You Choose?

HAPPINESS is a CHOICE. LIFE can be SO amazing one moment. And then, PAINFUL as hell the next. It can be MESSY. And then, it can be MAGICAL. We can feel broken. So broken. And damaged. And then, we feel whole. Sometimes we rise. Sometimes we fall. The  . . .
A Thank You Note

A Thank You Note

There is this guy who is venturing to put together the puzzle of me without a photo on the box to help with this navigation. Some days, I am missing six pieces, other days, maybe 12 pieces. A couple of weeks ago, I was whole for a while.  . . .
Ghosted – THREE TIMES!

Ghosted – THREE TIMES!

Before I go any further, let me explain what “ghosting” means (in case you’ve never heard of it before). “Ghosting” occurs when a significant individual in your life completely falls off the face of the earth - without any explanation, word, apology, reason, et al. That said, I’ve  . . .